Reflections on Turning 80
“Oh God. Oy. I’m in denial. I’m just in total denial. I don’t even want to talk about it. Being 80 is just unfathomable to me,” shared Candice Bergen as she approaches her milestone birthday on May 9, 2026. This candid admission from the iconic actress encapsulates the mixed emotions that often accompany significant life transitions.
Bergen, best known for her role in the beloved television series Murphy Brown, has had a prolific career in both television and film. Over the years, she has garnered five Emmy nominations for her work on the show, which aired from 1989 to 1998. As she reflects on her journey, Bergen’s thoughts also turn to her family, particularly her two grandchildren, whom she describes as “the lights of my life.”
Family and Personal Life
At 80, Bergen finds joy in the simple pleasures of life, such as spending time with her grandchildren, Louis and Alice. “I love sitting on my couch watching movies with them. They call me Toto,” she said, highlighting the warmth and affection that family brings to her life. This familial bond is especially significant following the losses she has faced, including the passing of her first husband, Louis Malle, in 1995, and her second husband, Marshall Rose, who died in February 2025 at the age of 88.
Despite the challenges, Bergen maintains an active lifestyle, working out with a trainer five days a week. She believes that “self-care isn’t selfish, it’s essential survival,” a mantra that resonates deeply with her as she navigates the complexities of aging and caregiving.
Looking Ahead
Bergen is also contemplating her next steps as she enters this new chapter. She has expressed interest in writing another memoir, reflecting on her experiences and insights gained over the years. Having published her first memoir, Knock Wood, in 1984, she is no stranger to sharing her life story with the world.
As Bergen prepares to celebrate her 80th birthday, she continues to inspire others with her resilience and dedication to self-care. Her daughter, Chloe Malle, who serves as the Head of Editorial Content at American Vogue, has also been a source of pride for Bergen, who has watched her daughter thrive in the competitive world of fashion media for over 14 years.
With her career still flourishing, including a recent appearance in the Apple TV+ series Shrinking, Bergen’s legacy in the entertainment industry remains strong. As she approaches this significant milestone, her reflections on life, love, and family serve as a reminder of the importance of cherishing every moment.
